pajama pants

I chanced upon these printed “pajama” pants in my size and knew I had to try this look. Drich says it’s very hipster, and that’s probably what I like about it. These pants, my new shades from Anthropologie, and some fiery orangey-red lipstick make for a look that’s not typical of me but somehow still feels very much like me. I very much enjoyed walking around the city in these comfy comfy pants.

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So… I will confess that I actually got this pair from Strawberry down on 14th Street. Going in there (and the branch in Grand Central) is a bit of a guilty pleasure of mine. Cel probably still can’t believe that I like shopping there hehe, but there always seems to be something interesting (and more importantly, affordable) to find there. The same thing goes for places like Necessary Clothing and Forever 21.

I remember Sunny’s reaction when I told her I randomly scour the shoe racks at Daffy’s when I have free time and actually own a couple of unique pairs that I love from there hehe. People are always surprised about where I shop for my stuff, but if there’s a healthy mix of high and low fashion then I think the things on the lower end of the spectrum get a little bit of an upgrade too. But maybe that’s just me.

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Gray shirt from Theory, black and gold necklace from Forever 21, Revlon Siren lipstick

 

Printed “pajama” pants from Strawberry, Adidas Y-3 sequin pointy ballet flats (from 5 years ago already, wow!)

 

My mom is of the opinion that you must never share the fact that what you’re wearing was actually quite a steal. I understand that if people keep finding out that this shirt or that shirt you were wearing was actually cheap, that maybe they’d think all your clothes are of “lesser origins” so to speak.  I just get really excited and happy when I score a deal that when someone notices or compliments it I quite often find myself saying, “You will never guess how much I got this for!” I guess I should try not to  divulge my “secrets” as often as I do… I just can’t help it.

Theory leather jacket, Anthropologie Split Frame shades

 

creation

“Creation is a better means of self-expression than possession; it is through creating, not possessing, that life is revealed.” - Vida Dutton Scudder, The Privilege of Age

 

my diana mini

I loaded some black and white film into my Diana Mini and took it around with me on Thursday when I had my day off. I’m only halfway through the roll because I’ve been using the half-frame option (and therefore have 72 instead of 36 exposures!). Quite excited to see how these pictures will turn out :)

colorful thursday

Another uncharacteristic winter day means a beautiful spring-like day! While I was walking around New York today, I realized once again why I love this city. I only wish I didn’t have to go around by myself, but then there’s no better place than New York for that too.

Because I had been working my butt off for the last two weeks on a couple of projects at work, I was given a comp day to enjoy today! Yey! Couldn’t have picked a more gorgeous day to be out and about! I, of course, did not want it to go to waste. So I woke up just 30 minutes after my usual time and headed to the MoMA for a little inspiration. Cindy Sherman’s retrospective is currently on exhibit on the 6th floor. I’ve been wanting to visit for some time, and this Thursday provided the perfect opportunity. Her self-portraits are immensely interesting, but I suppose that’s subject enough for a whole other blog post! For now, let me finish running down how my day went.

After going through the exhibition at the MoMA, I walked over a few blocks to Aldrich’s office to meet up for lunch. Lunch together on a weekday hardly ever happens. It is a rare, happy occasion haha! We ended up at Gyukaku for some no-fail kalbi, gyutan and steak barbecue indulgence. Top it all off with garlic fried rice and you’ve got one very satisfying meal. Too bad he was too busy to stay out longer or I would have invited (well, maybe forced) him to get jasmine milk tea at Coco with me! I did end up getting my milk tea fix after though, back down in the East Village at my trusty Saint’s Alp Teahouse.

On the way back to the apartment after our lunch, I passed by an H&M store. The Marni for H&M collection came out today and I thought I’d try to see what they had. It was already 1:30pm by this time, and that is, in the world of H&M collaborations, very very very late. All the women’s items were gone. Every single item of the 70+ piece collection had already been snagged by eager shoppers who came way way before me. Too bad. I would have loved to get my hands on a few of those statement necklaces! My mom is a huge Marni fan, she would have fancied them too. Oh well, it was not on my agenda for the day, my morning spent at the MoMA (for free thanks to our corporate account) was way better than drilling another hole into my already constantly leaking wallet hehe.

I had to get to the office at 4:30 for a meeting, so after getting home and resting for a bit, I decided to satiate my craving and buy myself a cold jumbo black tea with milk at Saint’s Alp. I then walked back up to the office, but not without first making a detour by Strands Bookstore. I’ve never gone through those $1 and $2 bookshelves they have sitting outside, and I’ve always wanted to, so today I did! And I picked up this book by a French children’s illustrator that had metallic mirrory pages and cut-outs. I found it cute, it made me happy and I just had to get it. I mean, it’s only $2 and it was in pretty okay condition.

Jeu de Reflets by Herve Tullet

And then off I went to the office. My day does not end here, but already I am buoyed up in a sense of productivity and joy. I haven’t felt this rejuvenated in a while, so I’m really glad I got to do all this. You can tell by the colors of my outfit (and my nails) just how rared up I am. As David and I would say, “Happiness level: up!” *laughs*

Forever 21 white collared sleeveless top, Forever 21 blue pencil skirt, Laila Rowe colorful scarf
Jewelmint whistle necklace, Fossil leather watch, Forever 21 red braid bracelet, Starbucks Indivisible “Create jobs for USA” bracelet (only $5 and for a good cause!) and red nails with Essie in Fifth Avenue

And of course I had to bring my bright yellow Z Spoke by Zac Posen bag! Yey! Today was a very good day. *smiles*

banjo strap

 

So, I know that this is a banjo strap… and I obviously don’t own a banjo, but I really wish they made these as camera straps instead! I just haven’t found any camera straps that have this balance of personality (no boring black here) and restraint. (All other camera straps I’ve seen on etsy have flower patterns, thick stripes or the like.) This herringbone strap by Copper Peace is screaming my name. The red detail with the embossed medallion and those leather end tabs really smarten it up. *sigh* Beautiful.

banjo strap

Actually, you know what, I may just one day buy it and use it as a camera strap anyway. It shouldn’t be difficult to repurpose. Maybe next week (when my wallet has recovered somewhat) I can splurge on this!

early valentine’s at nougatine

Had an early Valentine’s dinner at Nougatine with Aldrich last night, yey! He made a point to say it was only Part 1 of the celebration. Can’t wait to see what else we’re doing next week!

He came with flowers in pretty pretty colors last night. I’m excited for the lilies to bloom. My sister loves stargazers, and maybe her love for lilies has rubbed off on me too. So, we started off the night with drinks at the lobby lounge of the Mandarin Oriental. Man, those cocktails were strong. We both felt the buzz after only one each. Haha, at least you definitely got your money’s worth. Then we headed to Nougatine which was only across Columbus Circle. (Definitely some good date planning; guys take notes!)

Since it’s still Restaurant Week, we got the restaurant week menu. I had the grilled Gulf shrimp with butternut squash for starters, the beef tenderloin with garlic, parsley and chili for the entree and the pineapple upside down cake with basil ice cream (yes, basil ice cream!) for dessert. I love how perfectly the shrimps were grilled (and how the butternut squash puree blended with the spices on the shrimps). The beef tenderloin had a flavorful outside, but was nothing special for me. It was good solid beef, but not anything extraordinary. I loved the unexpectedness of the basil ice cream with the pineapple upside down cake though. I will have basil ice cream again anytime! I wish I had pictures of the food, but they weren’t especially beautifully plated, and we didn’t have a good camera with us, so we just enjoyed eating them instead, hehe.

Aaaand this is what I wore to our date night. Of course, I had a blazer and a coat on top of this when I stepped out in the winter cold though.

Forever 21 fashion illustration print silk top, Joe Fresh black tank top, H&M ochre circle skirt, black leggings, Aldo suede booties, Forever 21 pearl cascade necklace, Glam rock watch

 

my furry parka at rouge tomate

I wore my Cope dress from Urban Outfitters to work last Friday because it was a relatively warm day (considering it’s supposed to be winter!) Yesterday, the temperature actually hit 15 C! I was expecting -2 C weather for the start of February. I’m not complaining though; I only hope this doesn’t mean a winter that extends until April or a sweltering heat-stroke-inducing summer.

Sooo, we had dinner at Rouge Tomate last Friday because it was (still is?) Restaurant Week. Who passes up a three-course prix fixe for $35 at a Michelin-rated restaurant? Not us! (Thanks Aldrich for reserving a table!) I must say, this was the first time I’d ever seen a non-alcoholic beverage pairing with the Restaurant Week set, and I was glad I decided to take it. The Cucumber Cooler (cucumber, lemon, dill, seltzer) tasted like a sunny afternoon lounging by the beach. The Amber Palmer, which was my favorite of the three, was a unique, refreshing, sophisticated mix of jasmine and black tea, rosemary-grapefruit juice, mint and seltzer. It was their take on the Arnold Palmer, but a very different, and far more elegant version of it! The Pomegranate Mint (pomegranate mint syrup, fresh mint, lemon, club soda) was a good drink, but lacked the wow that the other two had. I would pass on this for another glass of that Amber Palmer, hehe.

The Amber Palmer

I think I would rather have these exciting fruit concoctions over a wine pairing any day. I will definitely go back to Rouge Tomate if only for the juice bar and that amazing appetizer called the Hawaiian Walu Crudo. Yummmyyy, it tasted like it had calamansi on it, so it tasted like a fresh hit of home to me.

Anyway, so here’s what I wore that night to dinner. I got this furry parka on super sale at the Barneys New York outlet in Hawaii over Thanksgiving break. (Yes, I know it’s a weird place to buy such a heavy jacket.) The furry part of it is actually detachable and you can wear it on its own as a vest– neat!

So I’m wearing it over a navy blue blazer I got from Daffy’s long ago for $20. It originally came with plastic buttons and I replaced them with navy/military style ones from M&J Trimmings that cost around $8 total. I sewed 3 of the 5 buttons, and I remember Cel sewed on the remaining two on the left sleeve for me when I got lazy! Hehe

Navy blue blazer from Daffy’s, Cope white striped dress from Urban Outfitters, GAP tan and gold belt, Zara desert boot wedges

 

happy braided jewelry

I’ve been really drawn to bright colors and rich hues lately. The last three shirts I’ve bought were kelly green, cyan and poppy pink. So when I went searching on Etsy for braided jewelry yesterday, I was drawn to these particular few that I just might buy one of these days. These funky pieces will certainly pop against the plainest of outfits. Couldn’t bear keeping these beauties to myself! So, here’s a roundup of three that I love. Their only common thread is being braided; they all have such different characters.

1. Braided statement necklace – $68 by whimsicaljewellery They have a variety of bib necklaces and other statement pieces that could be a lot of fun to wear.

2. Jersey fabric necklace – $18 by birdienumnumshop (A cross between a necklace and a light scarf, this is currently going at 10% off!) Eco-friendly handmade jersey necklaces from Chile.

3. Double Happiness braided bracelet – $18 by AmprisLoves This bracelet’s colors really do make me happy! I love this vintage clothing and handmade jewelry shop from Toronto. Her aesthetic is darling.

the queens kickshaw on yummy magazine

Yey! Forgive my excitement, but my name on a byline in a magazine is a sight I have not seen in more than 10 years! (Not since my days in high school at Candy’s Council of Cool.) Back in the day, I thought I wanted to become a magazine editor when I grew up. I’m all grown up now and I am far from that… far from any dream I had when I was younger, actually. I guess I still have a lot more growing up to do, but that melodramatic stuff is best saved for another day.

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Yey, I have a short article inside!

 

Anyway, so my good friend, Liz who actually DOES work for a magazine called Yummy back home in the Philippines, asked me back in October to help her out on an article about Filipinas who were making it abroad in the food business. My assignment led me to the door of The Queens Kickshaw in Astoria where I met Jen Lim and her partner and husband, Ben Sandler. I promised Jen I would go back (and I definitely want to, the grilled cheese sandwich I had there was amazing!) and now that the  Yummy January issue is out, I have an excuse to get my butt over there and say hello with a copy of the article.

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It’s the one on the left page.

 

I’m pretty pleased with how the article turned out overall (thanks of course to the magic hands of Liz and the other people at Yummy), but I have to agree with my sister that the last paragraph doesn’t seem like it really belongs. (Or maybe it’s also just a function of that paragraph being separated from the rest of the article by being on the next page?) Whatever the case, it’s not bad for a first attempt at writing in what seems like forever. I haven’t had to write anything like this since graduating from college in 2007 so this was actually something I missed. Soo.. if anyone wants to read the article, here it is! I’m also putting in a few pictures I’d taken from my trip there.

What do you get when you mix a grilled cheese sandwich bar, a coffee shop and a craft beer pub together? The Queens Kickshaw, a 9-month old shop in Astoria, Queens, New York owned by Filipino-Chinese Jennifer Lim and husband Ben Sandler. While espressos, fancy grilled cheese sandwiches and locally brewed craft beer make quite the unlikely trio, Jen and Ben have somehow made the union make sense.

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“I never would have guessed that I would own a restaurant,” Jen says. Graduating from the University of Toronto with a degree in Socio-Cultural Anthropology and a Masters from Pratt Institute in New York in Library and Information Science, it didn’t seem like Jen was anywhere on the path to becoming a restaurant owner. But the trademark Filipino knack for hospitality and entertaining left its mark on this New York transplant. “My dad’s family in Manila and Zamboanga is huge, and we were always getting together for birthday parties and holidays. There would usually be tons of food and drink, with us cousins running around and playing games,” she recounts. Years later, Jen still sees food as something that brings people together and creates a sense of community. “Ben and I have always derived a lot of joy from making people happy, whether it’s having them over to our house for dinner or throwing parties.” Successfully managing and coordinating their wedding in September 2009 gave them the confidence that they could pull off a big event, perhaps run their own restaurant. “Maybe we just wanted an excuse to have more parties.” Jen laughs.

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Ben, who at that time was a captain at renowned Nobu Fifty Seven and had been there for five years, was contemplating a career move. The more the couple thought about it, the more they realized that it was time for something bigger. “Ben comes from a family of great cooks. We both enjoy food and drink and he is especially picky about what he eats. In a way, he’s always already been in the restaurant business.” In April 2010, Ben quit his job and the couple worked for months on bringing their dream to life: creating a business plan, finding a space, hiring designers, getting building permits and actually constructing the place. The Queens Kickshaw finally opened in late March 2011.

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At 5:40 on a Saturday afternoon, The Queens Kickshaw is already abuzz with couples sharing bowls of Mac & Cheese (the pub’s take combines of cheddar, Gruyère, smoked mozzarella and French beans) and students typing on Macs while sipping lattes. Jen has her short black hair in a ponytail and is busy behind the counter with her staff, serving customers at the bar. Ben, with his apron and bearded smile, enters the store carrying a box from his latest run to the market. Jen meets him on his way in and asks about a curious long stick jutting out of the box of fresh produce. “It’s burdock,” Ben explains with a twinkle in his eye. “I’m going to be experimenting in the kitchen later.”

The restaurant interiors – exposed brick walls, wooden tables with legs made out of bolts and black pipes, industrial stools and wire-frame pendant lights – all exude a cool, understated yet layered sensibility that also extends to the menu. The shop serves up cheesy concoctions like Gouda grilled cheese sandwich with black bean hummus, guava jam, and pickled jalapenos or ricotta with egg, Gruyère crisp, thyme and maple hot sauce on brioche. The couple is constantly looking for ways to reinvent the grilled cheese sandwich. “We’ve always wanted our shop to be cheese-focused because it makes you happy when you eat it. The grilled cheese sandwich is so relatable to people. You can make it as simple or as complicated as you want it to be,” Jen says. “We’re working on putting new menu items in; hopefully some with Filipino or Chinese influences too.” Who knows, maybe one day we will find longganisa chunks among layers of gooey cheese.

Being still new to the business, Jen acknowledges that they’re learning as they go, but they are excited to see where their hard work can take them. “My parents had their own business, building homes and townhouse complexes in Manila. They started this on their own and became successful in a few years. I saw their ability to take calculated risks and succeed through focused, hard work.” Still working full-time as a photo library coordinator at The Associated Press, Jen goes to Astoria straightaway at six p.m. on weekdays and works at the pub all day on weekends. Marketing and social media are under Jen’s wing, and based on the rave reviews they’ve been getting in New York, it seems to be coming to her quite intuitively. Managing people and training them properly is another process she is continually learning about. Coming from the Philippines and later living in Canada and the US however, has given her a unique point of view and an appreciation for different cultures. “It’s given me a better understanding of people,” she says. Ben, of course, also brings his own unique perspective to the table. “At the heart of it, we just really want to be good and do good,” says Jen. And if things keep going the way they are for The Queens Kickshaw, then they are doing very well indeed.

from Yummy (January/February 2012)

colds be gone

I can only breathe through one of my nostrils right now. I can’t even remember the last time I’ve had the colds. Coughs are one thing, I used to get those every other week, but colds are another. I hate not being able to smell, not being able to taste, and having to breathe through my mouth at the worst. And then of course my voice sounds nasal and funny too. Rawr. Please please go awaaayyy.